Friday 8 March 2013

A Note to the Women of Today !!


A Day for the Women of today….. We wash the vessels, drive the cars and debate the workforce. This life is full of challenges and complexities. While men feel what is the big deal to wash vessels , I guess the deal is in washing the vessel, cleaning your hand, dressing them up and working on your laptop at work, while your fellow men colleagues silently admire our manicured fingers. Now that is a deal.
From changing the nappy to altering the project plan, women do it all. They raise those stunning men who make the difference on earth. We, women, live our life with fulfillment. We are tough, we are ambitious and we know exactly what we want and that defines us. We are the strong one. Every Man we meet wants to protect us. But from what?? A Woman need not be protected. She needs to be loved, appreciated and respected. They are everywhere, they know everything and they can do everything. They only thing that women need to learn is about power. No one gives you the power, you have to take it. A women is giving, she feels the urge to do things for others, small things that would make a difference. She expects the same thing back though untold and in silence. She wants to be treated as special. She wants to be ambushed with attention from the Man of her life. She wants to be the best one out there. This is the kind of women everyone loves and every man wants to take home.
What about the others? The women who have a mind of their own? Are they not the likable ones? Men love their mothers, but they don’t love the woman their mother chooses for them. They want otherwise, though they don’t own up. It is the same with women, they love their mothers too but these women want to be not like the mothers but the fathers. That’s the truth we fail to face. The entire emotional thing is like noodles in our head. It is complicated. It is an end of the era of good girls in prom nights. Happiness and womanhood is about living the day, not worrying about future. So take it easy, revealing too much too soon will not get you long. To the max, the man you adore may kneel down on the street and offer you a ring, but when the woman walks the aisle, she will think a second thought of “for how long?” The vow forever and ever starts a scary dip.
Commitment for women is a slippery slope. While all the changes happen to her, the Man freaks out. A woman always has a secret dream where she walks out of her father’s house in tears and dreams to be greeted by her Man’s family. That changes everything. That makes a difference when she is ready to miss her girl time, college get together and even her shopping sprees. The one who is a fashion road kill is ready to get unnoticed for the man she loves as long as she has all the attention of her man. That is the change in her. Appreciate this woman, don’t criticize her. If she can nail a man, she can beautify her drawing room as well. She can buy flowers for herself and kiss good night to the beautiful one in the mirror, but she wants he man to do it for her. She is the special one in his life, she is the one for him and she wants him to make her feel special.
HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY to the untamed ones, be proud of your Man just because he lets you be the one you are. You are Special, you are celebrated and you Rock!!


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